Wrapped and tied with a ribbon, receiving a gift is always a
pleasure. The sight of it excites you and makes you feel thought of and loved.
But as we grow older this token of gratitude, appreciation
and expression of love seems to die down. Not that we abandon gifting, but we
don’t do it that often. We miss occasions, delay or sometimes think of it as a
liability or formality. Nowadays if you notice, even in the family gifting is
done out of compulsion and not out of joy to make the other person feel
special.
Yes it is expensive to buy anything these days and people
also expect much. But we can always manage a token of affection, a little something
for those whom we love and admire. When buying a gift, think of their
interests, choice and buy something of use. And you’ll experience joy and
immense satisfaction.
The joy of gifting or receiving a gift, both should be done
humbly. Psychologists say that gifting is a surprisingly complex and important
part of human behaviour and interaction. It strengthens bonds and helps in
sending out positive vibes. You don’t need an occasion to do so, just when yu
want to make someone’s day and there’s a lot that you wish to convey, go ahead and
say it with a gift. It could be a book if they love to read, a pen stand for
their desk, an accessory, perfume, etc., if you’d explore options are many.
So go ahead and begin spreading the joy of gifting.
